Happy New Year y'all! I hope everyone had a safe, fun and exciting New Year's Eve - we are in Palm Coast, FL with family enjoying the sunshine! Before we all jump on our new year resolutions and goals, I think it is important to reflect on the year that is now behind us.

2016 was such a big year and personally, one of my favorites. Kollin and I accomplished a lot, changed a lot and grew together. From a new apartment, four-year anniversary, engagements and weddings of loved ones, and personal triumphs, we had a lot going on! 

Not to mention, the Cubs winning the World Series, new friendships, turning 23 and celebrating a full year at my full-time job. 2016 was definitely a growth year for us, and with growth always comes learning.

You are Not Your Age, You are What You Contribute

One of the best things I learned this year is that age is just a number. In professional environments, I am surrounded by people sometimes twice my age, whom have built impressive careers. I think it is really important to remember that your age should not determine what you contribute to something. 

Save

Another lesson from this year was how important saving is. Living in downtown Chicago, it can get expensive to have "everything you want." When looking for our new apartment and deciding what was a deal breaker, we had to be realistic. Of course, there are people who say, "You're young, don't worry about money!" but, nothing is more comforting than knowing you covered in the bank account area if something happens that you have no control over.

Celebrate Small Moments

This year has been a year of small moments (and big moments!), but what I loved most was cherishing the things that don't usually get celebrated. Whether it is landing a client, finishing studying for an exam, or just making it to Friday, cherishing the small moments help you appreciate the person you're sharing them with. 

After working full-time for over a year now, I can see how many people go through the motions and get bored with what they are doing, either personally or professionally. Adopting an appreciation for the small things, makes life and your experiences more memorable.

Be yourself

If moving to a new city has taught me one thing, it is that you should embrace who you want to be. I know I've mentioned this on the blog before, but living in Chicago made me comfortable with myself in a way that I never was before. I dress the way I want and get to be completely myself. Growing up in KY, that can be difficult because you pretty much stay with the same 150 kids from elementary school on. Nothing makes you reflect on who you are and what you want more than a new city or environment.

It's not a bad year, it's a bad day(s)

I was sad to see that many people I follow on social media had a challenging year in 2016. There have definitely been some scary, concerning and even bad things happen this year. But nothing puts your life into perspective faster than realizing that there are people out there praying for what you may take for granted.

I love the mentality of the New Year that so many people hold: new year, new me, new goals, a fresh start. I think it is great to take a look back and want to improve yourself or learn something new in the coming year. I hope everyone has a great start to a great year - 2017 will be such a exciting one and I wish nothing but health and happiness for each of you! Thank you so much for supporting my little spot on the internet! xx

Happy Sunday y'all! I hope everyone is staying warm in these freezing temps - it is a lovely -15 with windchill here in the city. There are some great sales out there for cold weather clothing. One of my first purchases here in the city was a puffer coat and shortly after were boots. Without having a car here, we walk pretty much everywhere within a mile radius. That calls for boots that will you warm and dry. I've listed some of my favorites below. If you're looking for some that will work outside of the winter season, check out Hunter boots here! (40% off)

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There are tons of hat options out there and nothing is trendier right now than a pom pom beanie! If you're looking to really save, Old Navy has some great hats for less than $10! They aren't available online so be sure to check in store.

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Here in the city people turn into puff people with all their layers and giant coats. Most of the time all you can see is their eyes, it's quite comical. But the first thing I learned from the cold Chicago weather was to invest in a good, warm scarf. Wearing these over your face save you from your tears freezing and feeling like your nose will fall off! I've added some cute and affordable, but warm options below!

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For me, winter is the season of over-sized sweaters and fuzzy socks. But, that doesn't mean you can't look stylish while staying warm. H&M has great winter sweaters that are also trendy! Off the shoulder is so in right now. The one below can be worn over the shoulder then adjusted once you're inside. #Versatility

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No matter where you are in the nation, everyone needs a warm coat. Below are some chic, but cozy options. This one is my fav, on sale and back in stock, but move quickly because they go fast!

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I hope this guide was helpful if you're looking to purchase some cold weather clothing soon. Kollin and I are headed out in the Chicago tundra to see the new movie, Jackie, with Natalie Portman. I'm a huge JFK fan and cannot wait to see it! I hope you have a wonderful rest of your Sunday and thank you so much for reading!

Hey y'all! Long time no see - being a girl in the real world has caught up with me and unfortunately the blog had to take a back seat. But, I'm glad to be back and share an ultimate gift guide with y'all! I wanted it to be approachable and hopefully have everything for every type of girl you're buying for, yourself included! 

I know how crazy your bank account can look during the holiday season with so many people to buy for so I wanted to include an under $50 option. Many of the beauty and 'My Christmas List' options are as well! Everything is linked below with where to buy and any sales - let me know any other gift guides you'd like to see. Happy Holidays!

Pink Beanie | Mug | Gray Sweater | Pink Sweater | Tassel Earring | Scarf  | Necklace  | Clutch | Statement Earrings

MAC Lipstick Kit | Kiehl's Hydration Essentials | Eyebrow Kit  | YSL Mon Paris Perfume  | Sheet Masks | YSL Lipgloss Trio  | Smashbox Mini Eye, Lip & Contour Kit

Steve Madden Pom Pom Sneakers | Chanel Perfume | Michael Kors Mercer Bag |

Tory Burch Wallet | Baublebar choker | Steve Madden Velvet Bootie

If you had told 17 year old me that I would be living with Kollin in Chicago and having the time of my life, I would have had a hard time believing you. In any love story there are times of hardship and character building, ours included. Because we have known each other since we were 14, we have definitely seen each other grow into who we are and have shown sides of ourselves that we aren't proud of.

On September 15, 2016 Kollin and I celebrated our four year anniversary and it was perfect. We always hear from family how much of an example of love  we are and I'm always asked by readers and friends how we managed to get where we are after years of being in different parts of the country.

To be honest, I don't have a solid answer I give everyone. I thought it would be helpful for other people reading to hear the perspective from both of us about what we have done successfully and unsuccessfully as a couple that had to adapt to change often - everyone, welcome Kollin to The Creative Brief! 

The most important lesson I've learned from our relationship:

Amanda:

Since our relationship started at such a young age, it took me a long time to understand that we were both growing up and that believe it or not we wouldn't end up the same person we were at age 14 (who knew?!). There were times where I just needed to let Kollin grow and be himself even if I disagreed or didn't understand and he did the same with me. Letting your partner become who they want in the way that they want is so important. 

Kollin:

I would say taking the time to show affection. A lot of couples are in a rush, us included, and I think it is important to really cherish those moments and let other things wait. 

What I've learned about myself in this relationship:

Amanda:

My expectations aren't always realistic or fair. I remember reading an article a few years ago about how the way you love someone is not always the expectation that person has. Understanding each other's needs and how to best adapt and communicate my expectations was a learning curve for me.

Kollin:

Being cognsant about the little things. Those little things can go a lot further than what you actually think is important. Being a law student, there are a lot of assignments and time commitments that I have after school, but making a point to spend time with Amanda before I begin my studies creates a balanced environment. 

How long distance made me a better partner:

Amanda:

I wanted to talk all the time and would be upset if there was something else that took time away from us. It then dawned on me that I had to choose Kollin over other things, even my own wants so that he could be the person he wanted. His soccer games, studying, fraternity commitments, etc. took away from our time together, but those things are what made him Kollin. Understanding the importance of choosing your partner everyday puts into perspective what is most important. Once I had this perspective, the small things about our relationships became the best parts.

Kollin:

Long distance made me more confident about our relationship because I knew that if we could last long-distance, we could last anything. Having that confidence allowed me to focus on the positive aspects of our relationship rather than the stress of worrying about what the other is doing. Not worrying about negative things made our relationship an easier and happier one.

 

How I overcame the hardest part of our relationship:

Amanda:

Kollin and I agree that being apart was the hardest part of our relationship. Personally, it was difficult to overcome the feeling that I was missing out on experiences with Kollin because we were separated. Having separate college experiences really shaped us into who we are and I am thankful for that today. When I would feel down about it I would focus on the amazing experiences we would have once we were together again. 

Kollin:

Amanda and I created an "agenda" that allowed us to focus more on time together and communicating regularly. Our plan was hard to stick to at times and was often pushed back or cancelled for our various commitments. I realized I needed to just commit and understand that if we both tried hard to fulfill our plan, our hard work would be worth it in the end. 

What I would tell myself four years ago:

Amanda:

Everything will work out, have faith in our love. There weren't many times where I would feel discouraged, but all the hardships came with feelings of sadness. I would tell myself not to worry and that everything I dreamed of would happen and it would be even better than I imagined.

Kollin:

The long distance that we went through before was just practice for where we are now. The effort put in back then taught us time management, which is still important today. Learning the importance of quality time early on was difficult, but something I am thankful for today.

My advice for other couples:

Amanda:

Don't let other relationships or even friends and family members define your relationship. Go at your pace, focus on what is important to you and your partner and communicate constantly about your goals and desires. If you think this person is the person, ask the hard questions and be upfront about what you expect from each other - it makes the actual hard times easier.

Kollin:

There is one thing that good relationships come down to... an open line of communication. If you can communicate well with each other you can get through any bump in the road. Don't be afraid to express your thoughts and desires with each other. 

I hope this was helpful for my fellow long-distance couples and those of you looking for some insight. Every couple is different and in no way do we want to imply that these are rules to follow. Do what makes you and your partner happy! Thanks so much for reading! 

 

The transition from undergrad to professional life wasn't too different in terms of what I was carrying around with me other than what I was carrying everything in. When moving to Chicago I knew it wouldn't be as simple as running back to the sorority house to grab shoes before my internship like it was in college. 

I needed a bag (bags if we are being real #addiction) that would work for commuting, drinks after work and basically carrying all the things I could need throughout the day. As a graduation gift my mom got me the Michael Kors Jet Set Tote and I have loved having the versatility of it in the city. Since it's black it goes with everything. For my birthday this year, Kollin gave me this St. Anne Tote from Barrington Gifts. The monogram adds a fun touch and it comes in a variety of patterns and monogram styles, which you can create yourself! I've added some other great work bags at lower price points below for my girls on a budget! This one is a great dupe for YSL!

When it comes to what is in my bag, there are always some things I always have with me no matter where I am going that day. For work specifically, I always have my computer, planner, notebook, favorite perfume, current favorite lipstick, sunnies and a change of shoes. 

Since we've moved to the Loop, I've been walking home from work (little motivation to accomplish that in the morning) and always grab my favorite pair of black flats to walk - the Chanel ballerinas. They were a gift from my step-mom when I landed my first internship and have lasted me years. They are pricey, but the most comfortable flats I've ever worn! Here are some great substitutes:

To keep me organized I always carrying around my planner, Corie Clark's The Purposeful Planner. It comes in a variety of versions, colors and has really helped me plan my days with intention. I always love to have notebooks with me for moments of inspiration or to just jot down some quick notes. Target always has the cutest ones - one of my favorite brands they carry is greenroom. They fit perfectly in a purse and come in the cutest patterns! 

In college, my laptop cover was a huge monogram, but coming into the corporate world I needed something a little more understated. This laptop sticker is so chic and has lasted me a while with no damage.

What ends up in my bag day to day varies based on what is happening, but there are three things I always have with me: lipstick, sunnies and perfume. My favorite, Chanel Chance Eau Tendre is the perfect blend of a sweet feminine scent and sophisticated undertones. The best part, there is a gift package that comes with a travel size. 

My go to sunnies are the RayBan Aviators. They go with pretty much everything, are a classic style and are super lightweight to travel with. Lastly I always have my favorite lip color with me, Maybelline's Lust for Blush. It is a subtle pink with mauve undertones that would look great on any skin tone.  

What's in your bag that is a must have? I'd love to hear from y'all and hope you have a fabulous weekend! 

As the September issue of Vogue comes out and the temperatures begin to dip, you know it's Labor Day weekend. Some of the best sales happen during this long weekend and I've rounded up my favorites based on the trend they are in. These are just a few of the things I've been seeing that are hot for Fall and on a budget! 

OLIVE STAPLES

One of my favorite colors that is on trend this Fall is olive. This army green color is being seen everywhere; from shoes to outerwear and even makeup. It is a great color to mix prints with and has easily become on of my favorite neutrals. Here are the olive picks I've found from some great sales!

BUCKET BAGS

If there is one bag that all the bloggers and designers are talking about it's the bucket bag. This boho trend has gotten a cleaner look this fall. Add some tassels like this one and you'll have a fun bag to tote around town. What's great is that you can find this style bag in multiple colors and sizes. All of these choices are under $100! 

TRANSITIONAL SWEATERS

Fall weather can sometimes be tricky because one day you're look at 60 degree weather and the next you've got 80 and sunny. The best way to combat the weird weather before Fall officially hits is to either drop the neckline or the sleeves. I've been looking for a great sleeveless turtleneck for weeks and this one is currently on sale for $25! The criss-cross necklines and detail has been really on-trend this year and it can totally be taken into the cooler seasons.

CHOKERS

90s girls rejoice, chokers hit the scene earlier this year and surprisingly have stuck around. The trend looks like it's here to stay as many great companies like Baublebar and NastyGal have them stocked up. Go for a sleek black look for everyday and a fun color or suede for a night out.

I hope y'all have a relaxing weekend and thank you so much reading! 

A few weeks ago I discovered Rocksbox, a premium jewelry subscription service, that sends you three pieces of jewelry for $19 a month. The best part? You can swap out your items as many times as you want all for the same price. There is no limit to how many swaps. You can even purchase the jewelry at a discounted rate if you love it that much! You start out taking a style quiz and deciding what items you'd like best on your "wish list." Your stylist picks items from that list to send you each time you swap. For my first box I received a pair of ear jackets, dangles and a super cute statement necklace.

I won't be keeping these selections since I'm so interested in what is coming next, but I thought the ear jackets were so cute and having been wearing them since I received the box! 

With designers like Kendra Scott, House of Harlow, Gorjana and more, there really isn't a reason not to try it. For those of you interested in trying, but don't want the $19 attachment, try out code amandabbff1126 at checkout for one month free.

As you can see above, the jewelry comes cutely packaged in a box with each of pieces inside. Shipping is free both ways so when you are ready to send back your items for a swap, just stick the box back in the envelope you received and the pre-paid package slip inside. 

The only catch in my eyes? In order to receive a new swap, you must send back all items unless you want to purchase that item you are leaving behind. Keep the items as long as you want, but once you're ready for a swap, they all have to go back together. 

When it comes to jewelry, it takes a lot for me to commit to something that cost more than the average H&M price tag, so when I found out about Rocksbox I couldn't see a reason not to try it! I hope this gives you a little inspiration to try something new with jewelry! xx  

As another Summer is passing by (seriously, how is it August?), some will make the change back into school. It is clear to see the differences in lifestyle even between Kollin and I. As he orders his books for classes, my email goes off with client related matters. As he plans his classes, I plan my my marketing schedule. 

Different stages of life come and go and it has been an interesting year seeing how things have changed after undergrad. From small things to big adjustments, it can be different for anyone, but here's a few that have stood out to me this past year!

The Real World Starts at About 7am:

In college I tried to make my earliest class 11am as often as possible. If there is one thing I am not, it is a morning person. Being in a city where it seems like there's the same level of energy no matter the time of day, it was an adjustment to change my schedule (sorry, Kollin 😘).

While I was waking up closer to noon, I was missing so much. I am thankful for the early wake up now, in a way, because I experience more of my day and fill it more with things I enjoy instead of sleeping it away. Plus, with girls running to Pure Barre at 7:30am right past you each morning, it gives you some motivation (still working on the motivation to actually go to Pure Barre 😁).

The Age Gap is Still There:

We've all experienced feeling too young or too old in college for certain things. 'I'm too young to be thinking about my job after college,' or 'I'm too old to be at this party.'

Well, that doesn't really change in 'the real world.' I'm constantly surrounded by people older than me and that was definitely an adjustment. I've always been told I seem older than I am, but to go from living with five girls the same age to constantly being around people 30+ was something I didn't think about prior to moving. This obviously depends on where you work, but let's just say there's a lack of young women in the investment banking world.

It's Hard Making Friends:

I'm embarrassed just writing this, but moving to any new place, it can be hard to make friends and this has been one of the hardest parts of the move. Coming from a place in Kentucky where people say hi on the street as you walk by, I expected to meet people in the same way in Chicago. Not being in school has really changed the way I've had to go about meeting people and making friends.

The introvert in me hates networking and business events are great, but I can only talk about certain subjects for so long before it becomes disingenuous. My best advice? Join groups or organizations and put yourself out there. As awkward as it can be, you'll meet so many different people in a short amount of time. 

New City New You is Absolutely True:

The cliché idea that you can reinvent yourself when you move is something I was so excited about when moving to Chicago. It wasn't that I wanted to change myself, but to become myself even more so. I wear things I wouldn't at UK, met people who have no idea who I am and divulged the narrative I wanted - not the one they've heard. 

Having the freedom to truly embrace yourself is one of the best feelings and has been my favorite part of moving to the city. I guess that is a part of growing up and choosing to be outside the status quo, which in college was harder to do for me, but feeling completely yourself is so rewarding.